#8 How’s the sex? Be real about it, too. Are you both satisfied and happy with your sex life? If you’re having issues now, you need to get them taken care of or admit that you’re not sexually compatible and therefore, shouldn’t get married. Sex plays a major role in a healthy relationship and if you can’t make that work, they’re not for you.
#9 Do we have healthy communication now? Think about how well you communicate. Is it great? Do you have an easy time talking about things and ironing them out? If so, that’s great! If not, you may want to talk about finding better ways to communicate or face the fact that you may not be right for each other.